The Power of Your Circle: Who’s Sitting at Your Table?
“When you left your job, everyone was talking about how crazy you were for doing so… but look at you now!”
A friend said this to me recently, and while I know her intentions were good, I can’t deny—it stung. What I heard in those words was:
Everyone was talking negatively about me.
Everyone thinks I’m crazy.
Everyone doubted me.
Here’s the kicker: I didn’t even know people were doubting me until 2.5 years later. That’s how long I’ve been an entrepreneur, building my own path. Back when I left my corporate job, I was surrounded by Elleiance Network members who cheered me on with unwavering belief. They encouraged me, inspired me, and most importantly, they pulled out their credit cards to support my business.
The Power of Positive Voices
If I had only heard the doubters back then, I don’t know if I would be here today, doing what I love. Imposter syndrome and fear could have kept me stuck, paralyzed by self-doubt. But instead, the positive voices around me gave me the push I needed to take the leap.
This is the power of having the right people around you. Your circle can either keep you stuck in place or propel you forward into a world of opportunity and possibility that you didn’t even know existed.
Look Around: Who’s Sitting at Your Table?
The people you surround yourself with matter. Take a moment to look around and ask yourself:
Who’s sitting at your table?
What messages are they telling you?
Are they lifting you up, or holding you back?
The right community—like The Elleiance Network—can be a game-changer. It’s a space where ambitious women entrepreneurs support each other, share valuable insights, and cheer each other on through the highs and lows of the entrepreneurial journey.
So, next time doubt creeps in, remember that your success is often a reflection of the people you choose to surround yourself with. Make sure they’re people who believe in your potential as much as you do.
